248: The Trivium Method Applied - Voluntary Communication (Part 2 of 4, Process)

Part Two: ProcessWhat are the results of knowing and using the skills of the Trivium Method of critical thinking in conjunction with the skills of using Voluntary Communication, also known as Non-Violent Communication (or NVC)?This show continues a series about Merging the Trivium Method with Voluntary Communication, and developing strategies for better interpersonal connections. Darrell Becker will be co-hosting all episodes in this series.Discussed Today:-The who, what, where and when of NVC-One of the whys - anxiety reduction-how the NVC process connects to the Trivium method-Observation, discussed in detail-Feelings, discussed in detail-Needs, Motivating Factors, discussed in detail-Requests, discussed in detail-"The worst sentence in the world" - Disconnected Communication-Demands-Diagnosis-Denial of Responsibility-Deserve-Oriented Language-The Abundance Perspective, "win-win"Bumper Music:We Like Sports - The Lonely Island - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CEVdca9U9LMLook Closer:Darrell's Communication Glossary - http://schoolsucksproject.com/practical-definitions-voluntary-communica…Center for Nonviolent Communication - https://www.cnvc.org/Jan Irvin's Site, Trivium Education - http://www.triviumeducation.com/T&H Trivium Resources - https://www.tragedyandhope.com/trivium/Discouraging words: Life-alienating communication - http://www.noogenesis.com/malama/discouragement/words.html